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The “Family Constellation” process is a trans-generational, phenomenological, therapeutic intervention with roots in family systems therapy, existential-phenomenology, and the ancestor reverence of the South African Zulus. Although the Family Constellation process is sanctioned by family therapy associations in Europe and is being integrated by thousand of licensed practitioners worldwide, the work is virtually unknown in the United States. This article serves as a broad introduction to the Family Constellation method and includes a biographical sketch of its originator—Bert Hellinger (born 1925).
The “Family Constellation” process is a trans-generational, phenomenological, therapeutic intervention with roots in family systems therapy, existential-phenomenology, and the ancestor reverence of the South African Zulus — Bert Hellinger

The word constellations is there to remind us that the stars in the universe are positioned in a certain way, they have their own place, their own motion and that they are connected. This is true for everyone of us. In our family, we have our unique place, we are interconnected and whatever happens to a family member has an impact on all the other family members.
The family is a very well structured system, in which everyone has its own special and unique place. The family system, as any other system, has its own rules and a self-regulating tendency and does this in a natural, normal, deep and unconscious way, so that the energies regain their balance, thus allowing Love and Life to flow freely towards the future generations. So, whatever happened to our ancestors it is here in our DNA.

The idea that previous generations may influence us from a psychological standpoint is found in old cultures in which the “healer” knew that the genealogical law and the manner of relating to the ancestors determine, to a great extent, the bonds, rights, duties, and identities that structure a human being. We know nowadays that there is a field that has consciousness, is intelligent and always present, a field that links us to all that surrounds us - this field is called the quantum field by the quantum physics, the morphic or morphogenetic field by the famous biologist Rupert Shedrake; it’s Jung’s “collective unconscious”; in the family constellations, this field is called the knowing field. Through this field, we are at all times connected to everyone and everything, regardless of whether or not we are aware of it and, more than that, we are interdependent and everything is transmitted through resonance.

We may start noticing in our life certain patterns, or recurrent financial difficulties that tend to be repeated by generation after generation, situations which entrap us like a vicious circle, recurrent failures, dysfunctional relationships with people around us, maybe overweight issues, physical and/or psychic diseases, the (apparent) impossibility to conceive a child, sexual dysfunctions, addictions, accidents, suicidal acts etc.
This kind of problems may appear in the life of one person (or more) in a family and we can address them through systemic work.
Of course, there can be happy aspects that may be transmitted, such as talents, gifts, beneficial situations, the ease to live and make things happen and we are not aware of and we can find about them when we re-connect ourselves with our ancestors.
Systemic constellations give us the opportunity to free our unconscious mind from these programs, patterns, faith systems, inheritance that we take over from our ancestors, and also to understand them at a deep level and find a way out, a solution that can bring peace to us and to our families and more than this to free the future generations.
Family constellations cannot be described, they can only be lived.
And all those who have truly allowed themselves to experience this therapy, are excited about and amazed at each new experience lived while working with systemic constellations.
What’s our true purpose on this earth, if not that of getting to know ourselves, getting to the essence of us, and allowing ourselves to enjoy this grand journey that is our life.

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About Laura

Laura Ghita is an experienced psychotherapist, empowering individuals, families and groups through their growth journey, while using the most appropriate methods and tools for every particular case. As a Systemic Family Constellations Facilitator Laura assists individuals in a very effective and profound way to find solutions to specific challenges in all areas of live – personal, relationships, health, profession etc.

Laura Ghita

MD Psychologist, Psychotherapist, Facilitator Systemic Family and Organizational Constellations, NLP Coach, Art Therapy, Time Line Healing Therapy