Reform Your Motherhood: Get Into Your Child’s Mind With Laura Ghita
The Experience
MOTHERS Gathering – finding more about your child/children, you will find more about yourself!
As Mothers, we consider our children to be the most important part of our lives. We are constantly putting all our efforts toward being perfect mothers, dreaming that one day we will have a perfect relationship with our child/children.
And at the same time, we are trying to teach our children, to educate them, sometimes even to force them to become a specific “someone” and encourage them to become better. Unfortunately, by doing this, we are unconsciously sending the message “you are not good enough”.
This pressure is harmful in both ways. Instead of bringing Mother and Child to work together for growth, it is bringing tension and distancing us from one another.
But what are we really trying to achieve here? Whose need do we want to fulfill? Whose dreams are these?
The solution for improving the relationship with our children isn’t to become a perfect mother or to always be “The Best Mother”.
In this workshop, we will use Systemic Family Constellations to help us get to know our child/children from a deeper level, the level of the Soul.
We will really, truly “see” our child! And by doing this, we will discover more about ourselves.
There is always a first step of the process that helps us create or restore the connection - the real, profound connection: Our connection with Ourselves, at the level of the Soul. The connection between us and our child will then suddenly be restored!
We will start to feel the distance between the two of us decreasing, the cold melting, and we will find new ways of communication that will improve our relationship with our child/children.
Systemic constellations are an alternative therapeutic method developed by German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger, who studied and helped families for over 50 years.
In this experiential workshop where you allow yourself to feel, see, hear, and experience with your body what is there deep in your unconscious mind, allowing yourself to become aware and bring everything out in consciousness.
The process looks into hidden familial or group patterns of behavior, and works towards the acceptance of the past and having healthier dynamics. During the workshop, you will be referred to as the “seeker” and will be asked to choose representatives from the group to form your constellation, physically positioning them to represent your family members, social agents in the community, abstract concepts like emotions, and other possible constructs in relation to your situation.
About Laura
Laura Ghita / MD Psychologist, Psychotherapist, Facilitator Systemic Family and Organizational Constellations, NLP Coach, Art Therapy, Time Line Healing Therapy
Laura is an experienced psychotherapist, empowering individuals, families, and groups through their growth journey while using the most appropriate methods and tools for every particular case.
As a Systemic Family Constellations Facilitator Laura assists individuals in a very effective and profound way to find solutions to specific challenges in all areas of life – personal, relationships, health, profession, etc.